when someone dislike you.......

when someone dislike you, choose one :

1. they tell you that they dislike u somehow

2. they act like nothing's wrong with you but they say something bad behind you

so which is better ??

i dont know which is better.

some say better they tell us directly.

but i think that probably make me feel so ashamed.

some say better they're telling us nothing abt our bad n they can say anything behind us.

but i think that will make me feeling backstabbed.

for me, nothing's better.

but if i have to choose, i'll choose the first one.

myb i'll feel ashamed.

i'll try to take it positive for me to fix myself.

but it'll be better when they tell me in a good way.

i'll appreciate that much.

so what's yours, people ??