being too kind is bad

so guys how abt the title ??

ring any bell in your head ??

any experience in your life ??

hmm ok.

here i dont want to say that being kind is bad.

thats good being kind to people.

but dont forget u still need to make urself do good. 

do happy.

dont ever u do something kind that make urself bad.

EXCEPT, u know that those people would do the same kind thing to you.

it's not about selfishness.

it's about not being so dumb coz of kindness.

u see, when u did kind things to people, NOT EVERY people will realize how u do that kind things.

maybe u hardly do that things,isnt it ??

but trust me, NOT EVERY people will realize it and do the same kind thing to u.

so EXCEPT, u REALLY dont want any reward for what u've done....

i firmly tell u to not being too kind to people.

think about urself also.

not just about others.

being selfish is not good.

but sometimes we need selfishness for protection.