don't stuck !

In a team or organization people tend to want to be just in the low position

Some says that where they are is enough

Some says there’s too much responsibilities in a higher place

Sure there must be much more responsibilities in a higher place

But when you always stay in your comfort zone you’ll get nothing more

Nothing is enough

Be a person who always want more and more

Never satisfied, eventhough u still have to know when to stop

Higher place means more responsibilities, more experiences, more in many aspects

it’s not a bad idea, right ?

so it’s worth a try !

the most qualified

what i want to say here is, LIFE.

people with better qualification will win.

this qualification can be anything.

lucky will counted too :D

it happens in every part of life.

school, work, social life etc.

the easy example is in love relationship.

compare who will gets man easier.

fat, face full with acnes, dumb, lame, drearily, not so interesting-girl WITH pretty, sexy, clever, kind, well-mannered, joyful, happy-girl ??

the fact is the second one usually will win.

i didnt say ALWAYS. 

but it happens in life usually.

in working life too.

if u let urself look worse than others, that must be bad.

so face this life with the best qualification u could have, guys !!

how's life people?
i hope u experienced the best one
for mine too :)

anyone thinking about ur future?
or u still thinking about ur past?

what is love ?
i dont really understand.
how is love ?
i dont really know either.

once, i think i know, i understand what love is.
but then i realize i dont.

how do we know is it love or not ?
is it love or just liking someone ?
sometimes it's just slightly different, isnt it ?
sometimes we fall for it.

love can bring us happiness ?
but love can bring us also sadness ?
it can bring us confusion but comfort at the same time.
what is this thing called love exactly ?

i dont know who or how we would find our love.
what i do know is we cant control how or when love would come to us.

i think i'll just wait and see when love will come to me.

building a relationship isn't always easy
for 2 person to always get along isn't always easy
there must be so many problems that could come

people say age doesnt matter when u come to love
but in this reality age can be one of the problem 
when the range is too long, the differences may become a problem
but what i believe is that when u love someone that differences wont matter anymore
the differences wont be gone
on the other hand, if we want to understand each other, i think the differences wont matter 

i think the key is communication
tell ur boyfriend/girlfriend about what u want or dont want, like or dislike
about what society u live in, about ur friends
being open is all that matters

with long range of age we cant push her/him to just understand everything just like that
think like u are in her/his position 
it must be hard
but with communication, understanding isn't as hard as it seems
when the relationship seems hard to maintain n what u can see as problems is different age

it comes back to why u want her/him to be ur girlfriend/boyfriend?
is it love ?
or not ?
if it is love, do u want to keep it or lose it ?
do u still want to fight for that love or not?
is there any reason for u to hold on her/him ?

if it is all yes, i think u both surely could conquer all the differences

whoooaaaa~

long time not post anything here

university makes me so busy.

actually for the midterms.

i still dont have the result which makes me so nervous.

and also the HRG competition.

unfortunately my team didnt win anything.

but nothing to be sad about.

that day was great with the three of the highschool student which all boys.

they're so fun :D

after the competition i still have P3KMABA.

accepted in evaluation division makes me has to have meeting every monday and friday.

a lil bit exhausted but still fun till now

i've been living for 19 years now n i dont know abt who's my true friend..

sometimes i think abt a person and feel like they're my true friend..

but not long after that i start to doubt that..

many things made me so doubtful abt it..

moreover at my bday..

at my latest bday even she who i thought is my best friend didnt congratulate me..

i dont know if she really forget my bday or she thought that congratulation isnt important anymore..

my close friend now just know my bday frm FB..

most of them forget n just remember cz there's people congratulate me..

even my mom forget my bday n only remembered at night but she remind me if i already congratulate my sis's bday..

the one who congratulate my first is someone who i dont think would do that..

i dont know if she was just not sleeping at that dawn n she saw my bday at FB, i dont know..

but on top of that, i dont wanna think much abt it anymore..

i will just called who i think are my true friends..

i wont mind if they think the same abt me or not..

cz i think true friends wont mind abt it..

but if i dont feel that they think the same abt me so my deed for them will be limited to what i think is enough..

my true friends ??

who ??

them ??

are they really my true friends ??

this life doesnt insurance us with anything..

it doesnt promise us with happiness all the time..

it doesnt promise us that our life would always going smoothly..

it doesnt promise us that we will always meet good people..

it doesnt promise us that our deed will be paid the same..

it also doesnt promise us abt when we will find our true friends or even our mate..

we ourselves who can guarantee how our life will be going till the end..