the most qualified

what i want to say here is, LIFE.

people with better qualification will win.

this qualification can be anything.

lucky will counted too :D

it happens in every part of life.

school, work, social life etc.

the easy example is in love relationship.

compare who will gets man easier.

fat, face full with acnes, dumb, lame, drearily, not so interesting-girl WITH pretty, sexy, clever, kind, well-mannered, joyful, happy-girl ??

the fact is the second one usually will win.

i didnt say ALWAYS. 

but it happens in life usually.

in working life too.

if u let urself look worse than others, that must be bad.

so face this life with the best qualification u could have, guys !!

how's life people?
i hope u experienced the best one
for mine too :)

anyone thinking about ur future?
or u still thinking about ur past?

what is love ?
i dont really understand.
how is love ?
i dont really know either.

once, i think i know, i understand what love is.
but then i realize i dont.

how do we know is it love or not ?
is it love or just liking someone ?
sometimes it's just slightly different, isnt it ?
sometimes we fall for it.

love can bring us happiness ?
but love can bring us also sadness ?
it can bring us confusion but comfort at the same time.
what is this thing called love exactly ?

i dont know who or how we would find our love.
what i do know is we cant control how or when love would come to us.

i think i'll just wait and see when love will come to me.

building a relationship isn't always easy
for 2 person to always get along isn't always easy
there must be so many problems that could come

people say age doesnt matter when u come to love
but in this reality age can be one of the problem 
when the range is too long, the differences may become a problem
but what i believe is that when u love someone that differences wont matter anymore
the differences wont be gone
on the other hand, if we want to understand each other, i think the differences wont matter 

i think the key is communication
tell ur boyfriend/girlfriend about what u want or dont want, like or dislike
about what society u live in, about ur friends
being open is all that matters

with long range of age we cant push her/him to just understand everything just like that
think like u are in her/his position 
it must be hard
but with communication, understanding isn't as hard as it seems
when the relationship seems hard to maintain n what u can see as problems is different age

it comes back to why u want her/him to be ur girlfriend/boyfriend?
is it love ?
or not ?
if it is love, do u want to keep it or lose it ?
do u still want to fight for that love or not?
is there any reason for u to hold on her/him ?

if it is all yes, i think u both surely could conquer all the differences